My parents have done very many sacrifices to bring me up and my brother, and
a sister. They are now not living in their country not with us. Actaually both
of our parents are on a foreign land for over 18 years. Well, this was not their
own choice. They had no option at that time. My parents could not get high education
because of some family financial reasons. In my country they could not do what
they could get at that time as per their education. Also the job they were getting
was not paying enough to bring up three children. My dad chose to move out so
that we could get a better education and life.
It was tough for my mom to take care of everything all by her self. None of
us could help her much as well. But she really fought back to every situation
to make us comfortable. My parents did not want us to move to the country where
my dad was now. They were determined to keep us with our people and in our culture
which was safe as comparision to the other. Time started to pass by and we grew
young. Our demands increased with time. My mom always fulfilled our reasonable
wants. She always celebrated our birthdays and took us on trips in our holidays.
I am the eldest child so i started to understand everything gradually. I strated
to take some work burden from my mom. helped her with coking, washing and in
running other errands.
When I was in my tenth grade my mom feel sick. She was so sick that she could
not toss in her bed. the doctors said she had a severe back pain and she neede
a complete bed rest. I was not ready fo cooking and my mom never took favors
from people or relatives. She still some how managed to do everything. My dad
used to call every day to talk to mom. In heart of hearts I started to feel
guilty. I felt as if my parents were in the situation beacuse we were their
liability. I really wanted to do something for them.
Three of us love our mom. My mom is a very sensitive woman who can not hurt
anybody or get hurt. I moved to college and made lot of friends. My brother
and sister started to get exposed to new things in the world. We started to
exlore things and got busy. So busy that we forgot about our mom to an extent.
She never metioned her lonliness to us thinking she would interrupt. She started
to miss dad even more. She used to cry sometimes and sound upset. Her situation
could not go unnoticed any longer. We thought my mom should go to our dad. Now
we were grown ups to take care of our selves. But my mom and dad were not comfortable
with the idea of leaving us alone.
We had a party in our house to celebrate my sister's birthday. All of our relatives
were invited. My mom shared our thought we her brother and said that she disagreed
with it. My uncle really respects my mom and offered her to take care of us.
But she did not want to take the big step just in a haste. She wanted to think
over it some more.
After some weeks my dad called up and informed that he was not well. He had
an heart attack and was in the hospital for last 3 days. My mom started to cry
thinking she could not see him or take care of him at that moment. I knew I
had to do something. After few days my dad started to improve but he was still
alone. I talked to my uncle and he talked to my mother to go to my dad. My brother
and sister wanted her to go and take care of him. Next day when my dad called
up my mom expressed her intention to come to him. He health was improving now.
My dad said talke to all of us to find if it was alright with everybody. After
being convienced he started the processand in a month she was there with him.
My mom meet my dad after year and half. We were now with our uncle. My parents
called up regularly.
We all are happy that they are together now. But I know that my mom is not
happy still. She missed her husband when she was with us and now she misses
her children when she is there. She always mention that we would be together
soon for ever. But I know my dad would not get a job at his age and we would
never want our dad to be alone with a risk of heart attack. We all pray to god
to give us strength to live in the situation.